Beghitam

For few months after the last post, I didn’t seemed to bother of adding a new one. Actually, I wanted to. I have a lot to ‘say’ since now there were much ‘circus’ going around Malaysia nowdays. However, since this blog was once used by someone for her/ his personal gains (i.e. backstabbing purposes), I’d refrain from taking such risk.

One kind of ‘circus’ that was the ‘in’ thing is spouse-stealing. I think the trend was started by our Datuk Siti. It seemed that everyone has made a silent agreement of not to talk freely on how a woman got married to someone’s ex in a short time. Now, other female artists did the same thing and they FLAUNT it. For example, Waheeda-Akhil (both of you are a disgrace nasyid artists’ image), Ajai-Liza, and perhaps soon Norman-Memey. What made me baffled is; ‘don’t they believe in karma?’ or ‘don’t they feel at least a bit guilty for separating a man from his wife and children?’

I think it’s not just me, many other women felt the same as well. What if your own beloved husband has an affair and even you broken-heartedly permit him to practise polygamy, he instead chickened out and divorces you? For me, I didn’t think I could live with that. So for those women (not just artists) whom in some way responsible for their husband’s first divorce, don’t you think he will do ‘it’ again? Divorce you or marries other woman when he got tired of you? The possibility is quite high since he done it before, so why not?

Men on the other hand have the tendency to become unfaithful (strays) when he started it. I’m not saying that all men will do that, but logical thinking: having a secret affair gives the adrenalin, the excitement. Overcoming the challenge of having a second marriage and/or divorcing the first wife will boost a men’s ego. Some men will get addicted to that like taking drugs or smoking. Plus, it’s not like it didn’t happen before.

I couldn’t think why these men have the heart to break their own marriage. Didn’t they pity at least the children? Even if they have problems with their wife, it’s their job to initiate the reconciliation. It’s no problem solving by having an affair and ended your marriage sourly.

P/s: Notice the 3 couples chose to wear white? White symbolizes purity and innocence. But, are they?

~ by magebane on August 25, 2009.